2017 Reading and Blogging Goals

In 2015 and 2016, I established reading and blogging goals for myself at the start of the year on my professional blog, Story Time Secrets. Now that I am primarily blogging as a mom and not as a librarian, I've decided to make a similar post for 2017 here at Read-at-Home Mom.

Reviewing My 2016 Goals 

First, here is a look back at last year's goals: 

I posted these goals on January 1st and then posted a mid-year check-in on July 1st. Here is my final assessment of how I did.

• Goal #1: Fumble Through Fantasy
  
  I had originally planned to read and review 25 fantasy novels for kids and teens in 2016. Up until I created this blog, I was counting the fantasy books I was reading and numbering them 1 to 25. After the move, I decided to make "Fumbling Through Fantasy" a label for all of my fantasy reviews past, present and future, and I stopped numbering the posts. I did, however, read 26 fantasy titles, and 25 of them were reviewed by the end of the year: 

1. The Princess and the Goblin
2. The Graveyard Book
3. The Wonderful Wizard of Oz 
4. Savvy
5. The Enchanted Castle
6. The Amulet of Samarkand 
7. My Father's Dragon
8. The Little White Horse
9. Skellig
10. Tom's Midnight Garden
11. The Phantom Tollbooth
12. The Gammage Cup 
13. Howl's Moving Castle
14. The Thief
15. Return of the Twelves
16. Ella Enchanted
17. A Wizard of Earthsea
18. Tuesdays at the Castle
19. The Neverending Story
20. The Sherwood Ring
21. Where the Mountain Meets the Moon
22. Something Wicked This Way Comes
23. The Enormous Egg
24. The Finches' Fabulous Furnace
25. Time at the Top

• Goal #2: Organize my social media content.
  
  I accomplished this goal, though not in the way I had originally imagined it. When I created the goal, I was thinking about using all of my social media outlets to promote my blog better. Instead, I ended up scaling back on blog promotion altogether and spending more time on Instagram. I really enjoying the book community on Instagram, and I have even started doing some book-themed challenges over there, so I'm pleased with how that turned out.
  
• Goal #3: Participate in more read-a-thons and challenges.
  
  I didn't end up joining too many reading challenges, but I did participate in Bout of Books all three times, and I completed the A to Z Blogging Challenge in April. I also successfully completed Newbery Through the Decades, and I did Armchair BEA. I'll probably do most of these again, in addition to my own challenge, and the others I've posted about. I find that I enjoy reading toward a goal.
  
• Goal #4: Write a page of fiction five days a week.
  
  I abandoned this goal almost right away. As much as I want to be writing fiction, I have a chapter due every six weeks in the textbook for which I have an actual contract, and it's just not feasible to have another project going on simultaneously. I haven't given up on the idea of writing fiction in some form in the future, but it might need to wait for a season of life when I don't have children under four. Or at least when I'm finished with my current writing project.
  
• Goal #5: Relocate, rebrand and rename the blog.
  
  After deciding I was not going to do this for another year or so, the perfect name finally came to me, and I moved over here in September. Though this blog is not as popular overall as Story Time Secrets,  I am much more comfortable with the relaxed pace and more personal approach I'm establishing here.
   

Reading and Blogging Goals for 2017

This year's goals are a lot simpler, but hopefully they will help me find a sense of direction for this new blog and engage more fully with my readers and fellow bloggers.

• Goal #1: Host a successful reading challenge.
  
  I have always wanted to host a reading challenge, but I was never sure others would participate. I'm very pleased by the response to the Old School Kid Lit Reading Challenge so far, and I have high hopes that I will not be doing it all alone.
  
• Goal #2: Connect more with the book blogging community.
  
  In the past, my frenzied attempts to read as many new books as possible resulted in a ton of posts, but not a lot of interaction with other book bloggers. Now that I have slowed my reading pace and started focusing on the books I really enjoy and want my children to enjoy, I find that I have more time to chat with other readers and bloggers. I've done some networking on Facebook and Instagram, but I want to be more intentional about it in 2017.
  
• Goal #3: Write more reflection posts.
  
  One of my hopes when I started this blog was that I would move away from strictly writing impersonal reviews of books and start writing more personal pieces about the role of reading in my life and in my family. I have started to keep a list of possible topics, and I hope I will have the time - and the guts! - one of these days to begin writing them up to post here.
   

• Goal #4: Complete my reading challenges.
  
  I listed all the challenges I am doing in an earlier post. This goal is mainly on the list so I will have somewhere to sum up all my progress at mid-year, and at the end of next December.
  
• Goal #5: Read only the books I want to read.
  
  For a long time, I have forced myself to finish books whether I like them or not. When I switched blogs, however, and stopped reviewing ARCs, I realized just how much time I was spending reading mediocre books out of a sense of obligation. I have started a did-not-finish shelf on Goodreads, and there are a few things there, but I still feel guilty about it. Hopefully, as the year goes on, I will feel less regretful about reading two chapters and deciding a book isn't for me.

What are your reading goals for the new year? Share in comments!

Reading with Little Miss Muffet and Little Bo Peep, December 2016

This month, we mostly read Christmas books, which you can read all about in my four Advent reading round-ups. Here's some more commentary on our December reading habits.

• Little Bo Peep is just about 15 months and she is beginning to talk. A recent exchange went as follows: Me: "Do you want Mama to read to you?" Bo Peep: "No, NO!" She has been pretty consistent about this aversion to hearing read-alouds over the past few weeks, though she will occasionally allow a read-aloud at naptime. Recent favorites have included Beddy-Bye, Baby by Karen Katz and Alphaprints Colors. She is also always present for our bedtime read-aloud, but she typically spends that time trying to poke her sister in the eye and stealing her stuffed animals.
• In going through cabinets looking for hidden Christmas treasures, I came upon an animal board book my mother bought for Miss Muffet (age 3): Alligator to Zebra ABCs. It has a lot of obscure animals in it, and Miss Muffet has enjoyed learning their names and attempting to teach them to Bo Peep. Each page poses a question to encourage interaction, and the full alphabet appears across the bottom of each spread so that you can always see where the current letter falls in the line-up. Miss Muffet has seemed especially fascinated by the Komodo dragon.
• We realized when we were putting together our Christmas stuff that we didn't get either of the children a book for Christmas this year. We have so many books that they are by no means deprived, but it does feel wrong for librarians not to give any books at all to their own daughters! Thankfully, though, there were a couple of books under the tree courtesy of Grandma. Miss Muffet received Secrets of Winter, which is a "shine-a-light book" where different designs are hidden in the pictures and must be revealed by holding a flashlight behind the page. (Grandma also provided flashlights.) Bo Peep received the board book edition of Dream Animals by Emily Winfield Martin, which she loved and carried around most of Christmas Day.
• We also received a book for review this month: Disney-Hyperion sent I Love My Grandma by Giles Andreae and Emma Dodd. We are big Emma Dodd fans, and the artwork did not disappoint, but the rhyming text is pretty clunky, and after two readings, I was pretty tired of reading it aloud. At the end of the book, which is about a boy and his grandmother and the things they like to do together, I asked Miss Muffet if her grandma is like the one in the story. Immediately, she said, "No, my grandma has a ponytail. And she doesn't sigh." These details are very important to the three-year-old mind.
• Finally, I just want to mention that Miss Muffet has started drawing actual shapes (mostly squares) and writing actual letters (mostly U, V, and W). When she tells us about her drawings, I can often notice influences of the books we've been reading in the drawing itself and in the story she tells about it. (We've had a lot of sleighs on rooftops with stars this week.) I think 2017 is going to be an exciting year for her literacy skills and I look forward to documenting it here!
  
  
  

Fumbling Through Fantasy: Time at the Top by Edward Ormondroyd (1963)

When Susan Shaw disappears suddenly one afternoon, her father and others in her apartment building fear that she has been kidnapped. In reality, though, Susan has ridden the elevator to the top floor and slipped through a time warp that has transported her back to 1881. There she meets Victoria and Robert, a pair of siblings who are concerned about a smooth-talking gold digger who is after their widowed mother's money - and her hand in marriage. When Susan strategizes to help them scare the suitor away, her own fate becomes magically wrapped up with theirs in a way that will eventually alter history.

I think I was a little bit unfair to this book as I was reading it because I could not stop comparing it to the brilliant novel that is Tom's Midnight Garden. The comparison is virtually unavoidable, since both books are time slip stories where ordinary kids step into other eras by simply exploring different parts of their own homes, but it still felt like I was constantly thinking, "This isn't how Philippa Pearce would handle this." Time at the Top simply isn't as emotional as Tom's Midnight Garden. The story is told in the voice of the author, who has purportedly heard Susan's story secondhand from their mutual neighbors, and who is one of the few who believes wholeheartedly in what eventually happens to Susan. The story is written more like a report than a reflection on an experience, which makes it more difficult to empathize with the characters.

That said, if I don't compare the two books, Time at the Top is an interesting novel on its own. I like that the entire story is told in the first couple of chapters from the logical, reality-based point of view of Susan's father and other adults, and then retold in detail from Susan's perspective in the remaining chapters. I also like the ending. Susan has an idea which is not entirely unpredictable, but it is thoroughly surprising that she is able to pull off what she plans. I wasn't sure I liked the ending at first because it is told in Ormondroyd's voice as the narrator, and we don't get to find out Susan's feelings at the final moments of the story, but then I found out there is a sequel (All in Good Time), and I realized the ending really is one heck of a good set-up for a follow-up story. I only hope I can find a copy of that second book!

Time at the Top is the exact kind of fantasy novel I tolerate best. There isn't a complicated explanation of how the magic (in this case, time travel) works, but it's not so vague that I was constantly distracted or confused. I always felt that I could completely believe in what was happening, and that Susan, despite many obstacles, would eventually come out okay. A really enjoyable and quick read appropriate for all ages.

The Best Books I Read in 2016

For most of this year, I was still reading and reviewing ARCs of new children's books. Though I have shifted my focus a little bit on this new site, I still want to point out the ten brand-new middle grade books that I really loved this year. Here they are, in no particular order:

The Long Pitch Home by Natalie Dias Lorenzi

This tightly plotted and wonderfully written novel tells of the serious culture shock suffered by Balal when, overnight, he and his mother and siblings are suddenly relocated from Pakistan to the Washington, DC suburbs. Bilal is just completely lost in this unfamiliar world of baseball games, ESL classes, and multicultural holiday sing-alongs, and Lorenzi captures his bewilderment in pitch-perfect, believable prose and dialogue.

Write This Down by Claudia Mills
In the newest of her many masterfully written school stories, Claudia Mills explores the sibling relationship between sensitive aspiring writer Autumn and her brother, Hunter, whose sullen and disrespectful attitude toward Autumn and her parents is causing a lot of pain in their family. As Autumn aims to get published in a prestigious magazine, she also struggles with the idea of exposing her private thoughts about her brother and her crush, Cameron, to the world. I usually like Mills's work, but this one struck me as exceptional. Mills truly can be trusted with any story.

Mission Mumbai by Mahtab Narsimhan
In this celebration of male friendship, "nerds of a feather" Dylan and Rohit travel to Mumbai along with Rohit's parents to attend a family wedding. Dylan sees the trip as an opportunity to try new foods and prove to his dad that his interest in photography is more than just a passing fancy. For Rohit, the main focus of the trip is convincing his parents not to listen to Bua, his controlling aunt, who wants him to move back to India to finish school. This is not only an interesting introduction to Indian culture but also an adventure story with humorous and exciting events which have particular appeal to pre-adolescent boys. More than any other book I read this year, this one understands how kids' minds work.

Soar by Joan Bauer
I read a review copy of this book in 2015, but it was published in 2016, so I'm including it on this list. When Jeremiah, who is physically unable to play baseball because of a heart transplant, moves with his adoptive father, Walt, to Hillcrest, Ohio, he helps the community recover from a steroids scandal by agreeing to coach a middle school baseball team. I almost never feel inspired by books which are meant to be inspirational, but this book's happy and upbeat main character who has survived against some pretty serious odds seems so incredibly real that it is impossible not to feel uplifted in some way by reading his story. Joan Bauer has written several really lovely books, but I think this is my favorite so far.

Once Was a Time by Leila Sales
In 1940, Charlotte (Lottie) Bromley and Kitty McLaughlin are best friends. Charlotte's father is a scientist who has discovered how time travel works. When both girls are kidnapped as part of a plot to coerce Charlotte's dad into giving up his secrets, the situation looks so grim that when a portal shows itself to Charlotte, she steps through into another time and place. Trapped in the future, Lottie does her best to assimilate into 21st century culture, but she never stops looking for Kitty, and hopes that she will one day see her again. This is a really compelling time travel story, but also a tribute to the power of friendship. It was so well-written, I just zipped right through it.

Wolf Hollow by Lauren Wolk
Annabelle is the main character of this historical novel set between the world wars in a small Pennysylvania town. When a new girl, Betty Glengarry, comes to town Annabelle's previously calm and quiet life takes a surprisingly dark turn, as Betty begins bullying everyone from her classmates to Toby, the eccentric war veteran who lives on the outskirts of town. When Betty makes an accusation against Toby, and then goes missing, everyone in town assumes that Toby is responsible for her disappearance, but Annabelle is not convinced. This author has previously written for adults, and some have argued that she has not transitioned well to the middle grade market. I disagree; this is a powerful book, and it will make a strong impact on the readers who give it a chance.

How to Avoid Extinction by Paul Acampora

When Leo's widowed Gram and cousin Abbey decide to take an impromptu road trip across the country to see some dinosaur fossils, Leo tries to stop them, but quickly finds himself tagging along for the ride instead. As they travel, Leo begins to slowly piece together previously unknown details about his own life. This is a great middle school novel that hits all the right notes: lovable main character, lots of heart and humor, unexpected detours, new friendships, and familial bonding.  This was just a really unique and different story, and I found that refreshing. 

The Classy Crooks Club by Alison Cherry

When twelve-year-old AJ is sent to stay with her grandmother for a month, the last thing she expects is to uncover the fact that Grandma Jo's bridge club is really a front for a heist society - or that she will soon be asked to join. The premise of this book sounds far-fetched, but the writing is so funny and clever, it was truly impossible to put it down once I got started. This book is proof that feel-good novels can be of solid literary quality.

Cody and the Mysteries of the Universe by Tricia Springstubb
In this second story of the series, school is about to begin and Cody's new friend Spencer and his parents have just moved in with his grandmother, GG. While Cody worries that Spencer might get a mean teacher, she and Spencer also become fascinated with GG’s next door neighbors, The Meens, who do things like kill bugs and crush soda cans with their bare hands. In the meantime, Cody’s brother Wyatt suffers from girl trouble, as his girlfriend Peyton Underwood keeps breaking up with him. Tricia Springstubb has become one of my favorite authors because of her excellent characterizations and beautiful, quotable descriptions. This book epitomizes everything I love about her writing. 

Weekends with Max and his Dad by Linda Urban

Max's parents are recently divorced, so now Max spends weekends with his dad at his new apartment. This first book about the pair covers the events of three weekends, during which they pretend to be spies, create a makeshift open mic night, and tackle the common cold and a school project with a little help from a neighbor. This book portrays a wonderfully warm father-son relationship without dwelling too heavily on the reasons for the parents' divorce. The writing is nuanced and emotionally resonant, and the characters are lovable and memorable.

I also make it a point to read older kids' books. Below are the top ten backlist titles I read this year, with links to my reviews.

• The Wednesday Wars by Gary D. Schmidt (2007)
• The Open Gate by Kate Seredy (1943)
• A Day on Skates by Hilda van Stockum (1934) 
• The Enormous Egg by Oliver Butterworth (1956)
• The Sherwood Ring by Elizabeth Marie Pope (1958)
• The Little White Horse by Elizabeth Gouge (1946)
• Tom's Midnight Garden by Philippa Pearce (1958)
• Jenny and the Cat Club by Esther Averill
• The Return of the Twelves by Pauline Clarke (1962)
• The Rest of Us Just Live Here by Patrick Ness (2015)

I'm linking up with Top Ten Tuesday, hosted by the Broke and the Bookish.

My 2016 Kidlit Reading Pet Peeves

I read more than 650 books this year.  As I went through my Goodreads shelves seeking the books I loved best for tomorrow's blog post, I came upon many 1-star and 2-star reviews that I wrote, criticizing various books that I either borrowed from the library or downloaded via NetGalley or Edelweiss. I noticed some interesting trends in my comments about these books that I so thoroughly disliked and wrote them up for today's post. Here are some of the most common complaints I had about books I read in 2016.

Toilet humor.

I realize that finding humor in using the bathroom is part of a developmental phase all kids pass through. What I can't stand are adults who write children's books prolonging this phase by indulging it and even celebrating it. Books containing bathroom jokes send the message that toilet humor is funny and acceptable, and they demean children's literature as a whole, confirming the stereotype that kids' books are not serious literature. If there is a joke about pee, poop, butts, or the like in a children's book, and I know about it ahead of time, my children never see that book. Writers should want to do better.

Owls who sleep at night.

Miss Muffet has loved owls since she was about a year old, and she has filed away lots of facts about owl behavior. One of those facts is that owls are nocturnal. Therefore, she is confused by stories where owls are awake during the day and sleep at night. What annoys me about this more than anything else is that the animal in a given story does not need to be an owl. If an author needs a diurnal animal in the story to make it effective, there are many to choose from. I don't see the rationale behind writing an owl story where the owl character does not actually behave at all like an owl. It seemed like I read more owl books this year where the owls were unrealistic than books where they were portrayed accurately. (Apparently, there are some crepuscular owls. Sadly, I don't think I have seen a single one of those in a picture book.)

Bad rhyme.

This is not a new complaint this year. Bad rhyme is my number one pet peeve in children's books, song lyrics, rhyming poetry, and anywhere else rhyme may occur. The purpose of reading rhyming books to children, aside from entertainment, of course, is to teach them how to hear rhyme themselves. It's impossible for children to hear this in a text where words are chosen simply because they rhyme, and not because they are the best words for the story, or where imperfect rhymes are used more frequently than perfect ones. I don't think there is any excuse for publishing a poorly written rhyming book. Authors either need to master rhyme like Margaret Mahy and Virginia Kahl have done, or stick to prose.

Too much like an existing book.

It is true that there are only so many plots authors can use, and there are going to be lots of repeats. But when an author writes a book in 2016 that sounds almost exactly like a book from 50 years before, it makes me think someone involved with the publication of that book just doesn't know his or her children's literature that well. Also annoying are books that try to imitate the style of recent award-winners and best-sellers. Surely there must be authors writing today who have original ideas; I'd like to see them get published.

Illustrator is a poor writer.

I read somewhere that there is a growing push for picture book creators to both write and illustrate their books. Unfortunately, it seems that many talented illustrators really do not have much of a way with words. There have been several books this year with beautiful artwork and truly terrible texts. In every instance, my review said something like, "I wish this illustrator would do the pictures for a book written by someone else." Writing and illustrating require two very different skill sets. I think it's silly to expect any one person to have equal talent in both areas. Some do, and it works for them, but those who don't should be working on projects that use their strengths.

Religious inaccuracies.

Another thing that drives me up the wall are books with glaring inaccuracies about world religions - and specifically about Catholicism/Christianity. You can easily Google to find out what a specific religion teaches, or speak to someone who practices that religion. There is absolutely no excuse for an author getting a fundamental belief or practice wrong in a book. The only reasons that happens are laziness or a willful ignorance of inconvenient facts that do not fit the book's worldview. This year I also read a picture book version of a Bible story which had removed all references to God, and that was totally baffling.  

Allegedly humorous, but does not make me laugh.

I am not someone who laughs very much at kids' books, so this is a very subjective complaint, but I would think that a book that is marketed as hilarious, or praised for making kids laugh out loud would at least cause someone in my family to crack a smile. I'm aware that my sense of humor is not necessarily in line with the mainstream (see above re: toilet humor), but to have so many truly silly and lame books labeled as funny and to have all of them fall flat is about more than just me being weird.

Prescriptive and preachy.

I am tired of books that try to teach me and my children How to be Good People. This is partly because the messages tend to be very political in nature, but it's also because children don't like preachy stories. As a parent reading with a young child, it is my role to guide conversations about various fictional situations in a direction that helps with my kids' moral development. I don't need the book to do this for me. I can't tell if authors don't trust adults who read to kids to have the "right" conversations with their kids, or if publishers just aren't weeding out these books like they used to, but it seemed like there were a lot of Very Special Stories this year that made my eyes roll nearly all the way back into my head.

Despite these complaints, there were actually lots of books I liked this year! Check back tomorrow, and I'll have the whole list.

7 Quick Takes: Advent Reading Round-Up Week Four

We have had a lot of repeat readings of Maple and Willow's Christmas Tree and Who is Coming to Our House? which I have mentioned in past round-ups, but this week, in the home stretch of our Christmas countdown, we also added a few more new-to-Miss-Muffet titles. Here are this week's highlights:

The Story of the Nutcracker Ballet by Deborah Hautzig and Diane Goode 

I had this book as a child, back when my elementary school chorus did a singable production of the Nutcracker, but had not thought of it at all in over 20 years until I saw a post about it on Instagram. Because Miss Muffet has been very interested in the story of The Nutcracker this year, and because of my own nostalgia, I put it on hold at the library right away. I've read it with Miss Muffet a couple of times, but she has also enjoyed listening to the ballet and looking through the book on her own. Its text and illustrations are both very preschool-friendly and much more cheerful than a lot of other adaptations.

Mr. Willowby's Christmas Tree by Robert E. Barry 

I find the rhyme in this book tedious to read aloud, but Miss Muffet has been requesting multiple readings, so I've had to deal with it. In the story, Mr. Willowby orders a Christmas tree which is too tall for his parlor. When he cuts off the top of the tree, it is given to his maid. This smaller portion of the tree is also too tall for the place she has prepared for it, so she cuts off the top, too, and someone else picks it up, setting into a motion a long chain of treetops being removed and recycled. At the end of the book, when the chain finally comes to a happy conclusion, I asked Miss Muffet, who sighed contentedly, what she liked about the book. She said, "They finally stopped cutting off the top!" Evidently, she found this troubling.

Christmas in Noisy Village by Astrid Lindgren , illustrated by Ilon Wikland

This is not a chapter book like others in the series, but a little slice of life picture book about how the families of Noisy Village get ready for Christmas.We read it at bedtime, and Miss Muffet was completely silent the entire time, which is usually a sign of a good story. She wanted to look at the book again the next morning, and asked me if I could name all the kids in the first illustration. Then she wanted me to find the baby, Kerstin, on every page on which she appeared. I am starting to put some of the books away at this point, but I think we'll keep this one around until the end of the twelve days of Christmas.

Babar and Father Christmas by Jean de Brunhoff

My husband has a stuffed animal of Arthur, Babar's cousin, that has been around since he was a kid. Arthur has sort of become a mascot of our family, and we all enjoy looking for him in the Babar books. In this story, Arthur, Pom, Flora, and Alexander are dismayed that Father Christmas never visits the world of elephants, so they send him a letter asking him to come. When they don't get a response, Babar sets out on a quest to find him and discuss the situation face-to-face. This book is really, really long but Miss Muffet's familiarity with the characters and fascination with Santa Claus seemed to help keep her focused.

A Little Child by Jessie Orton Jones and Elizabeth Orton Jones 

When we brought out our creche, I also brought out this book which tells the story of Jesus's birth and childhood using various Bible passages. The illustrations portray a group of children acting out a play based on the text. It does include the Protestant version of the Our Father, which I read as it was printed, and Miss Muffet seemed a little puzzled by the debts and debtors, but otherwise, there was nothing in it that doesn't match the Catholic teachings about Christmas. The only real drawback is that the book is so old, I can't allow Miss Muffet to touch it because it would most likely disintegrate in her hands.

The Christmas Day Kitten by James Herriot, illustrated by Ruth Brown

I remember reading this book as a child after I already knew how to read independently. I suspected Miss Muffet was a bit young to get the full impact of the story, but I tried it anyway, and it went okay. She missed the fact that there were two cats - the mother, and the kitten - which distracted her from the overall significance of the story, but she listened attentively and seemed interested. I think she will get more out of it as we read it each year.

Pat the Christmas Bunny by Edith Kunhardt 

A conversation with my mom the other night revealed that she had sent this book to us and we had never opened it. So we opened it last night and both girls took an immediate linking to it. Bo Peep is a little bit confused by the difference between touch-and-feel books and scratch-and-sniff books, so she kept trying to sniff the bunny and the wool stocking and pat the candy cane. Miss Muffet became immediately interested in pretending to write her letter to Santa and pulling the toboggan down the hill. This is one of the few books we've read that I think they have both enjoyed equally.

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A Very Merry Christmas Survey

In this busy week counting down to Christmas, I thought it would be fun to do this Christmas survey. I first saw it at Mom's Radius, who found it at Rebel Mommy Book Blog, who linked back to its creator at Lindsay's Library.

Favorite Christmas song(s): In the realm of extremely cheesy secular songs, I have always liked Because It's Christmas by Barry Manilow, Grown-Up Christmas List by Amy Grant, and Have Yourself a Merry Little Christmas.  In the religious carols category, my favorites are God Rest Ye Merry Gentlemen, I Heard the Bells on Christmas Day, Oh Holy Night, Il Est Ne Le Divin Enfant, Angels We Have Heard on High, and O Come All Ye Faithful.

Favorite Christmas movie(s): I love A Christmas Story. When I had TV, I used to watch it at least twice during the TBS marathon each year. I don't always watch it every year anymore, but we quote favorite lines around the house all year long, especially "Bumpuses!" and "A bowling ball" and "You look like a pink nightmare." I also have fond memories of watching Home Alone on TV with my sister on Thanksgiving night to kick off the holiday season.

Rudolph, Frosty, the Grinch or Charlie Brown? Charlie Brown. It's the only one that reflects on the true religious meaning of Christmas, and I love the music.

Best and/or most memorable Christmas gift you ever received: One year (1990, maybe?) my parents swore up and down for months that there was no way they would allow us to have Nintendo. We had resigned ourselves to the fact that we would just never have it, and then on Christmas morning, there it was under the tree.  And actually, my parents wound up playing it as much as we did! There was also the year that everyone bought each other the same electric knife. As a kid, I remember thinking that was just so unbelievable.

Real tree or artificial tree? I always had a real tree as a kid, and I was always sick on Christmas because I'm allergic to pine. I never wanted to switch to an artificial tree back then, but as an adult, I decided I wanted a fighting chance of not being sick and we bought a pre-lit artificial tree when we got married. And considering I haven't been sick on Christmas ever since, I don't think I would go back to a real one. 

What tops your tree? Star? Angel? Bow? We have a colorful light-up tree topper. The shape is round-ish - not quite a circle, but definitely not a star.

Do you send out Christmas cards? Do you go photo card or traditional? Now that we have kids, we send photo cards, since most of our friends and family don't live nearby, and we want them to see the girls.

When did you stop believing in Santa? I was around ten, and my mom had to sit me down and tell me. I suppose I had some inkling deep down, but it threw me for a total loop, partly because she told me in the summer when I wasn't yet thinking about Christmas, and partly because I had believed for so long and really wanted to believe. But I'm thankful my parents didn't let me go to middle school still believing in Santa. I had enough social problems during those years!

Do you have any special Christmastime traditions? We are still building our traditions with the girls. This was our second year having a Jesse tree, and that has gone well, so I expect that will turn into a yearly tradition. We have also tried to read one Christmas book every day of Advent, which is something I want to continue and that I hope will get easier to maintain as the kids get older.

Do you have a favorite type of decoration -- snowmen, trees, Christmas village, etc.? I have a few pieces of a village, but no space to put it up. I keep saying that when I'm an old lady I will have a huge village that will just take over my entire house, but I think that probably sounds more fun than it actually is.  My grandma always had a village when I was a kid, though, and I was obsessed with it. I think I mostly liked the idea of making up little stories about the people who might live in it. I also really like blinking lights, even though we don't have any.

Do you have any sentimental decorations or ornaments? My favorite ornament is one I have had since early childhood. It's a fuzzy white pig with a blue ribbon around his neck. There is no particular memory attached to him, but when we were teenagers, my sister and I started calling him "proud piggy" for some reason, and it stuck. To this day, when I text her a picture of him, she will reply with, "So proud, so proud." I guess it's not especially sentimental, but I like having an ornament that reminds me of all our past Christmases. I also have a special fondness for the Hallmark cat dressed as an angel because it is the only ornament that broke when the family Christmas tree fell on me in 1995. (It has since been glued back together.)

White lights or colored lights? Big old-fashioned lights or mini lights? I have always preferred colored lights for the tree (we don't decorate outdoors.) I like the look of the big old-fashioned ones, but so far, we have always had minis.

When do you start decorating for Christmas? When we first got married, we decorated on Thanksgiving, but now we have a daughter with a birthday around that time, so we push it back until somewhere in the first couple of weeks of December. This year, the tree went up on December 8 but the creche didn't come out until the 20th.

Favorite Christmas treat: My mom always used to bake chocolate cookies with white chips, and though I don't make them exactly the same way

Do you like sugar cookies? Gingerbread cookies? Of the two, I prefer sugar cookies, but I could live happily without both.

Do you have cocoa or hot chocolate? Do you like your warm chocolate-y beverage with marshmallows? I like hot chocolate with marshmallows.

What do you eat at your Christmas feast? Roast beef and yorkshire pudding.

Do you open any presents on Christmas Eve or do you wait until Christmas morning? We wait. In my mind, opening on Christmas Eve is cheating!

I didn't have good answers for Lindsay's final two questions, so I'm omitting those adding one of my own.

Favorite Christmas books: Since I was in high school, I have tried to read at least part of The Unlikely Romance of Kate Bjorkman by Louise Plummer every year at Christmas. It's a teen romance novel, but it's well-written and smart and funny, and it just makes me feel festive. I also love The Christmas Day Kitten by James Herriot, which is a picture book but can be enjoyed at any age, and The True Meaning of Christmas by Anne Fine, a middle grade novel which deals with family dysfunction in a hilarious way. I've also always loved the selections included in the Believe Christmas Treasury by Mary Engelbreit.